Impressions

Its about the Impressions! People are surely super strange…I mean every individual is spectacularly different.
The way that individual thinks, acts or talks is different in many senses than one.
You could never say that what would affect whom and how. May be its some thing you do, say, act or may be it might be abstractly connected. you never know.
You pass an allusion at a girl she may take it positively in a fun way or get offended by what you say!
And at the same time you remember that a similar remark by another friend of her gets a different response.
The point is different people behave differently with different people!
So you have to choose what you are going to speak to whom. The way you speak and what you speak is going to decide how you create impressions.
And an interesting thing to notice is that people are prejudiced! They form views before you even meet!
So if you are an image conscious kind of a person you have to fight these prejudices.
I as a person am very bad at it. I hope I would learn this art very soon!
that is why i am trying out this johari window concepts with my frnz!
wish me luck!

The Levels

The levels!

Yeah this one is about the mental barriers that we have in our lives…
The things that are mental hurdles .yeah this about being brave…I once read that the brave are those people who are braver for a few more minutes…
Yes its about holding to the nerve and not giving it up…
That’s the spirit I was talking about. The battles are played up there in the brain….
I was thinking about all this yesterday after watching a table tennis match.
It was awesome competition and in the end…..the winner was the person who was mentally strong…both players showed an excellent game…
Yes practice matters; you need to be in your nick but you have to prepare yourself mentally also before you tackle any such barrier.
The best way to increase your mental strength or the LEVEL is to face more situations!
The second kind of level that I think is about mental keenness. And yes this level can be raised with proper effort and focus. It’s like when you work hard for your exams …..You solve problems try and memorize things which are abstract and abstruse you condition your brain for such kind of challenges in the future. SO when ever you face such challenges you would be better prepared to meet them. I some times used to wonder how some people are able to get more without putting the required effort…they just seem to be GENIUS! Defying common logic! But the reason about their success is their increased level. For example some of your friends might be able to score more marks in say a xyzeee subject without putting in much effort. This might be because of their better way of presentation or their ability to grasp things quicker or may be persisting under pressure! Remember the first level! This friend of yours should have worked hard while learning how to present him/her some time back in the past and now is able to reap the fruits.
So hard work done at any point of time is like sowing seeds of fruit bearing trees and watering them. Off course you will have to water these trees regularly to utilize this edge effectively! So don’t worry while doing hard work! It will always payoff one or the other time (although it does most of the times!)

Yeah now today is my turn …yep and I am going to prove that I can do it!
Amen.

Shree Ganesh

This is about a person ,his life , thoughts, his dreams ,the people who influence him ,the things he likes to do.....Yeah its bout ME! wallah! Its for the sole satisfaction of this holy soul and is not aimed to or not alluding to any body .That is why I call it bother no one! (statutory warning!)
I would like to start with one thing that I strongly believe in.
its my belief that every man has a different path to success and one day I'll carve one for myself. There is nothing that suggests me that I won't be able to do it and so am confident that I will be able to do it.
I have always been fascinated by Ray crocks story and believe that success can come to you at any point of time and in some special way!So am less prone to jealousy. Rather I am happy when my friends succeed might also have a selfish perspective ....That being if my friends do well they are strengthening my network! Yeah...........
The second thing is I try to be happy most of the time.I try to be positive most of the time ...although I am still very much a human and am prone to the fallacies of being a human.
nevertheless I am happy to be born as one!